Monday, April 19, 2010

Movie Monday--Grey Gardens

[Ok, now, I do declare, Monday posts may be either music-related or movie-related.  Today is movie.]

You know when you watch a movie and it ends, and you don’t know totally what to make of it, but you can’t stop thinking about it?  Pulp Fiction was one of those for me, many moons ago.  Did I like it?  Did I hate it?  How could I not know?!

Well, about three weeks ago I rented and watched a couple of dvd’s from the library, and here I am still, much later, with those on my mind. 

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Grey Gardens

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 The Beales of Grey Gardens

Both films were from a 1975 documentary made by a pair of brothers, The Maysles, just kinda peeking in on the life of two Hamptons-living ex-socialites from the well-known Bouvier family (Jackie Kennedy’s aunt and cousin), existing in their decaying mansion with cats and coons and trash and filth and crazy talk of all description.  Big Edie and Little Edie Beale, even their names seemed odd, were the mother and daughter featured.  They were quite reclusive, eccentric, and can I just say, existed in some strange states of mind and even stranger surroundings.

I enjoyed it.  I guess? But it was so weird.  But so real.  But very weird.  But like people are.  Well, sometimes? 

Definitely one that left me thinking…

Thursday, April 15, 2010

Sprucing Things Up

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I have been a busy girl around here.

 April 10 002 Last year I put a stain on the wicker furniture and it just seemed to soak it up, so, especially by this year, it was looking very blah again, as you can see above.   Yesterday I spruced it up with some brown spray paint and new pillows.   April 10 004Much better I think.  Today I am going to get some red annuals and fill the flower pots.  I’ve never gone with red flowers.  It’s like pure excitement on the front porch!  Watch out!

Last week, I did something I didn’t think I could do and that was climb the tall ladder to paint the upper part of our stairwell.  I climbed up with my paint stick and just didn’t look down.  It worked.  Well, except I still couldn’t reach the very top edges and corners, so Gary’s gonna help with that.  This the view looking up from the stairs.  It’s a long ways up.April 10 047

April 10 111Ok, this is totally embarrassing but you know I am all about sharing it all…I have never experienced such gratification from paint as I did when I painted this upstairs hallway. 

The new paint on the bottom half here is actually the same color as the old paint, and the line of demarcation that you are seeing what I am calling the grime line. April 10 110 That’s what 10 years of kid hands grabbing the walls they go up to their rooms gets you.  Gross.  I know.  Covering that up was just an unexpectedly super wonderful feeling.  Loved it!

Gotta say I’ve learned a thing or two from this whole house-fixing-up thing and my main one is:  Don’t wait.  Just jump in and spruce up and replace as you are living in it.  Don’t wait ten years.  (Although I know it was next to impossible for many of those years with four babies/toddlers to get out of the paint, but still….there were locks on their doors.  Why didn’t we just lock them up and get our work done?!  Hindsight.)

      April 10 045Lately I’ve also been painting the carpet.  Oops.  Good thing it is outta here in the very near future.  And see, more grime.  Sorry.  Gross stair carpet—be gone!  Forever!  I will not miss you one bit.

April 10 049But the front door is looking spiffy, don’t you think?  Paint is a wonderful thing. 

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April 10 057  I’ve been trying out different colors in the dining room.  The wallpaper is going to stay (oy, enough wallpaper removal for me already), but the walls are getting a fresh coat.  I decided to stick with the same ol’ neutral off white.  I have five gallons of it.  Geesh.

April 10 108When your paint bucket is nearly half the size of your kid, you know you’ve got a lot of paint. 

Here’s the kids’ bathroom with wallpaper removed.  Coloring is weird in this picture from the lighting (we kept the 70’s-Hollywood-dressing-room-light bar—why?), but the walls are now painted a light gray sorta color (before I bought off-white mega-paint).  No more floral wallpaper!  I painted the ceiling and also spruced up the grout of the floor tile, and I have a product recommendation for you if you ever need to do that job.  Took down the mongo shiny gold shower curtain rod and it’s in the yard sale stash.  Some drywall repair around the shower, new caulk, new stain on the oak vanity and mirror, and a new toilet seat, and we are looking good!

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We’ve been working on the mini master bathroom also, but it’s not quite there yet.  I bet I have put on five layers of paint, trying to get the texture right.  Another thing learned:  Don’t use any kind of gloss paint unless you have a perfectly smooth wall.  And that a formerly wallpapered wall does not make. 

Soon to come is the new carpet, dining room window, roof, and gutters (all hired out—thank you and big yippee!!) and then we’ll tackle the landscaping. 

And then we might never want to sell it.  April 10 052

Wednesday, April 14, 2010

How Kids Do Their Homework These Days

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Sam’s homework assignment yesterday was to graph what kinds of recyclables we had and how many pieces of each.  I took a picture of the work he was doing just as Caroline decided to display our only piece of glass.  

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Nice.

Monday, April 12, 2010

Music Monday—Hello, I’m Johnny Cash

Debra offered such kind words about my Billy Stewart post Click to show "Billy Stewart" result 5

that now I am comfortably inspired to share more about music I enjoy.  I know my taste is probably quite different from yours, but maybe you will find some entertainment, enlightenment, or hopefully enjoyment from my point of view?  If not, skip GillsAGoGo on Mondays.  : )  Well, as long as this Monday Music whim-thing keeps going. 

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My Grandma Lois was a HUGE Johnny Cash fan.  He was her all-time favorite, I am sure.  I remember once, when I was about 10 years old, being at her house while a very persistent insurance agent spent a good part of a summer afternoon trying to sell her on something.  Finally, after the tape had looped I-don’t-even-know-how-many times in the 8-track player, he said, “Ma’am, I believe you like Johnny Cash?”

I wasn’t really a fan of Johnny’s until adulthood since I sorta blanket-approach disliked anything to do with country music. As a kid, country was all that seemed to be  available in Clay County, and I craved the cool music like pop and rock. 

That outlook seemed to change once I wised up  opened up  grew up (although I will say that I still don’t care for much of country music), and I found I definitely had some favorites of my own amongst the country oldies. 

While we were dating in 1996, Gary impressed me with his own rendition of Ring of Fire, substituting his own harmonica-out-of-a-comb-and-waxed paper-minus-the-comb-and-waxed paper mouth sounds for the horns.  The big goof totally won me over, as evidenced by the short-term engagement, marriage, and four kiddos soon following.  If we were to hear this song today, he would grin at me and spontaneously do his horn part, and on that, I am willing to bet you a million bucks.

As those who know me well can attest, I am a huge fan of the Red Hot Chili Peppers, and there is actually a down-right impressive connection between the Chilis and Mr. Cash. 

Rick Rubin has significant history with the Chilis, as their record producer from their sensational fifth album in 1991, BloodSugarSMagic (keeping it kid-friendly here) through their latest, their ninth album in 2006, Stadium Arcadium

Rubin also produced a career-reviving series of albums for Johnny Cash, known as the American albums, in the 1990’s through early 2000’s, after Johnny had been dropped by big-name labels Columbia and Mercury.  Rubin arranged for/asked? Chili members John, Flea, and Chad to play on some of these covers by Johnny Cash.  Check ‘em out!

Heart of Gold—I am sure you know the Neil Young original from 1972.  I just heard it on the radio today, in fact. Here’s Johnny’s version with great excellent guitar sounds from the former Chili, John Frusciante, my favorite guitarist of all time.  This song was released on the box set Unearthed two months after Johnny’s death in 2003. 

Personal Jesus--It’s Johnny’s remake of an artsy song I enjoyed in my 80’s college hey-days.  I guess Johnny’s interpretation really isn’t one I find that special, even though John’s guitar work is there, but the fact that a 70+ year old Johnny covers Depeche Mode is just highly interesting. 

 

Wow is about the only word I can say for this one, Hurt; so moving and sad, this, his final video. It’s a remake of Trent Reznor’s Nine Inch Nails song from the mid-90’s that I don’t think anyone could have envisioned Johnny covering, well, except I guess mastermind Rick Rubin himself.  It was filmed at Johnny’s home, very spur of the moment with no makeup, just Johnny raw, real, and so somber.  While you listen and especially while you watch, you cannot help but absorb his haunting heartache of regret, as much a man in black then as he’d ever been.  Watch his beloved June watching him.  

I hear this song as powerfully fragile, if that makes any sense.  Johnny died less than four months after June.  I think, maybe, in part of a broken heart.

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Hurt

Written by Trent Reznor

Released 1994 by Nine Inch Nails

I hurt myself today
To see if I still feel
I focus on the pain
The only thing that’s real
The needle tears a hole
The old familiar sting
Try to kill it all away
But I remember everything

[Chorus:]
What have I become
My sweetest friend
Everyone I know goes away
In the end
And you could have it all
My empire of dirt
I will let you down
I will make you hurt

I wear this crown of thorns (as sung in the Johnny version, original was the non-kid friendly: sh word)
Upon my liar’s chair
Full of broken thoughts
I cannot repair
Beneath the stains of time
The feelings disappear
You are someone else
I am still right here

[Chorus:]
What have I become
My sweetest friend
Everyone I know goes away
In the end
And you could have it all
My empire of dirt
I will let you down
I will make you hurt

If I could start again
A million miles away
I would keep myself
I would find a way

Friday, April 9, 2010

Matters of Clothing

 

Today’s topic is clothes.  Caroline is a mini fashionista who enjoys her wardrobe fully, and has started her own fashion blog, Caroline’sClothes.  She debuted the idea right here on Thursday, and with the feedback she received in the comments section, she decided to create her own blog, sharing her outfit from each day.  We hope you will check in and enjoy it. 

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And the second clothing-related occurrence today involved Grant.  I noticed on the calendar this morning that it was Spring Picture Day at school, after he had already gotten dressed and was having his breakfast. I mentioned to him that it was Picture Day and would he like to wear something a little better?

His exact words, and with all the sincerity in the world: 

“What could be better than this?”

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Free t-shirt from the bank—apparently nothing tops that. 

Thursday, April 8, 2010

The NEW What I Wore Today

by Caroline

Which picture do you like most?

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Put 1. or 2. on Comments. 

Tuesday, April 6, 2010

Sam has Sprung

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Saturday, April 3, 2010

Brown vs. Green

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There’s been a ridiculous LONG standing argument in this house as to just what color this couch is. 

Let this be stated for the record:  C’s shirt and hair are clearly brown, therefore, the couch is obviously green. 

I win. 

Thank you.

Friday, April 2, 2010

Who Wins?

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